There are thousands of therapists in Colorado to work with. Some are outstanding, but many are not. It can be frustrating when a therapist just nods and listens, or doesn’t deeply know their craft. We focus on what helps and we bring our care, our knowledge, and our commitment to each session.
We return phone calls. Almost always within 24 hours. Sometimes we even answer the phone when you call! Don’t you hate when you’re trying to take care of something important with a professional and you can’t even get a call back? We don’t leave you waiting.
We show up on time. Having been in the field a while, we’ve heard the stories about the therapists who continually show up 15, 20, or even 30 minutes late. We find this tremendously disrespectful, and we should almost never be late (even by 5 minutes).
We care more about you than about our theories. The psychotherapy profession is full of passionate and committed partisans about the best ways to help people change. While we share the passion, decades of research to find the ‘magic bullets’ for psychological problems consistently show that different approaches help different people. This drives psychologists crazy and we even have a name for it: “The Dodo Bird Verdict” (it’s from Alice in Wonderland if you’re curious). We are not wedded to a single approach that may be in vogue this year (or decade) only to be replaced by the next miracle cure.
We want you to fire us. Sure, we want to be stunningly helpful. But the very best therapists (“supershrinks”) have about a 70-80% success rate with their clients. In comparison to a lot of fields (including medicine), that’s fantastic. But not if you’re in the other 20-30%. So we make sure that we’re heading in the right direction and the fit feels just right to you.
If it doesn’t, we don’t call you a “difficult patient.” Sometimes, the problem is your therapist. If it’s just not working out, we get it; and we invite you to try another therapist at The Colorado Center any time you want a fresh perspective–even just for a second opinion or to experiment with the process. We don’t take it personally–it’s how we operate.
Or we will try to find a colleague outside our practice if that might be a better fit. We’re committed to being the most helpful psychotherapists you can find anywhere…even if that means getting you connected elsewhere.
We talk with each other. The Colorado Center is committed to the highest standards of confidentiality and privacy. This is part of the reason we refuse to submit clinical information to insurance companies (beyond a diagnosis, and even that happens only if you request it). Yet, we also know (and some research backs this up) that collaborative group practices like The Colorado Center often provide better therapy than therapists in solo practices do.
We respectfully consult with each other as needed to improve our effectiveness with our clients and keep ourselves from getting locked into theories or habits that may get in the way of helping you. Rest assured that when we do consult with each other, we do so with a deep reverence for client dignity and privacy; never in the cavalier and disrespectful way that we have seen in the hallways of some doctors’ offices.
We focus more on what we get wrong. Research on top performers in every field shows that the best in their fields focus more on what they do wrong (and fix it) rather than trying to repeat what they do right. We’re about clinical excellence. Excellence requires an extreme devotion to working on our failures and weaknesses so we can build our strengths. We truly want to be the best therapists in Colorado.